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came across this website when i was really really bored. it's abt why women are attracted to boy boys and stuff. er.. sounds v correct to me. i couldnt really explain y.


'A woman might LIKE the experience of the "nice guy" doing nice things, but it doesn't CREATE attraction or a connection with the woman.

Ever.

Trust me, I know men who are the "nice guy" all the time and they get so frustrated trying so hard to please a woman and get her interested. '

and

'Women don't develop a connection to the nice guy and the "connection" is the MAGIC ingredient for attraction with most women.

But women have a deep attraction mechanism that's triggered by men who behave indifferent, superior, cocky, the list goes of "bad" behavior. You've seen it.'

but.. i do not agree with this;

'Being too "nice" sends a signal to the "deep" part of the mind that tells you "this person isn't desirable and is lower status". '

nahh.. thinking too much.

forgot to mention sth which i always tot of when i'm working.

discounts are not how much u save, but how little they earn.

arghh.. so bored at home. i'm writing rubbish.

watched a lot of luo zhi xiang's video. so in love with him. haha. cant wait for him to come singapore.. but i got no one to pei me to get his signature even if he comes. haha. and my energy. they're recording an album ok? without niunai.. tt idiot left energy. nvm i still love him. HAHA!

i wanna go out.. 4th consecutive day at home. i spend more time being asleep than being awake. god. i dun see the diff between me.. and... a pig =x but nvm. from sat onwards my life shall not be tt boring anymore. i'm going ktv with chunpei next week. HAHA. so weird.. so looking forward to it =) li xiang qing ren!!!

bleh.. crap entry. i noe.

hello! =)

got my pay last night and i was so happy.. den i started counting how much money i left after spending some neccessary stuff.. i wasnt tt happy anyway. why did i quit? =x

yup.. i just watch 3 ge hao ren.. nice show but the ending sucks. ytd watched goal.. haha.. catching all the movies i wanted to watch in the cinemas but somehow no time, or no money, or.. no ppl to go with or whatever the reason is. and, why do i cry so easily when watching shows?

den last thurs went out with hq.. totally out to spy wad she wants for her bday coz i duno wad she wants and what she likes. i went back home early to have dinner coz my erjie coming home for dinner. so poor her, i pangseh-ed her but there's god jvn to save her night. LOL!

den sat.. we finally went out to celebrate mini foong's birthday. ok..mini is apparently a so-call christian name we got for her, since she's so small and.. mini suits her. HAHA! but b4 tt..we went out to search for her birthday presents and thought of what to buy for her. challenging task.. coz i only noe those things she casually say she says it's nice and she likes. so ya.. lol. end up, i think she quite like the presents we got her anyway =) but she a bit she bu de use the white pouch as pencil case? i c ur pencil case..tt ugly 1.. long black one with bright orange zip. haha. i cant c u continue using tt alr. lol. wanted to get her a brownie as bday cake coz she like.. but den the others prefer cake.. maybe cake is more for birthday.. haha. and ya.. wanted to buy her accessories.. a necklace from m)phosis and a earring from parade, a shop from far east. but the necklace no more liao.. the earrings.. er.. we're lazy to walk there plus we bought enough things alr. haha. but i really hope to c u wear those kind of earrings 1 day. haha.

ok anyway, we went to this japanese western restaurant my dajie recommended.. ma maison..at bugis. the price was quite ok, but the serving are slightly smaller than places like cartel. maybe not cartel, cartel's serving is ultra big. maybe.. swensons. went there too early.. should wait for the sun to set den go. haha. more cosy, more cottage like.. it's quite nice. there's this quite cute jap waiter. haha =x i ordered a fish dish and there's this extra small piece of fish with cheese on it.. i duno y.. i tasted it and it tasted like....shit. i think it's a different kind of cheese.. it's.. hell. i put like a big piece of it into my mouth and it's.. OMG. yp tasted just a super small piece of it and she gave a very stupid face. haha.

a few of us actually forgotten to give hq her presents b4 asking for the bill. haha! the restaurant's super cute. u gotta take this very big key to the counter to pay your bill. haha.

ok photos. =)


slacking at mos burger b4 going to the restaurant. tired after shopping for her presents.

argh...fat. hate it when my eyes become smaller when i smile. tt's y i try to......

open my eyes. lol! tt hq is so dark.. i'm so fair!! when's the next sentosa trip, girls?

they obviously self-pic-ed coz there's too much space at hq's side. haha

killing time while waiting for tt 2 late princesses.. xy and sheila..

waited until the sun set.. haha. no la. cant c the sun from here. lol.

o.O!

er.. them. haha.

wl.. now u noe y i seldom wear sleeveless?!?!?! arghhhh

them =x

attempt to self pic. haha!

birthday girl with her cake. haha. look at tt 'happy 18th birthday mini' HAHA! imagine the ppl preparing the cake.. and the waiters in the restaurant, they must be wondering, how come this person has a STUPIDDDDD name? lol.

we still got someone to take group photo for us.

someone else took this photo for us.. den we were like.. the topic should be us, not the background! so.....

we decided to use timer to take all our group photos from then.. haha. timer leh.. not bad right? lol. it was.. on a dustbin. LOL!

another 1.. but the tall ppl were in front.. kneeling.. AHEM.. tall ppl.. notice i'm in front? =x actually i have the average height among them.

i duno wad's this and i duno wad i'm doing. =x

wl wanted us to jump in for the photo so tt we wont be so neat. lol.

madness.

this is another obviously self-pic photo. haha

this is not.. i think? =x

this photo can say messy liao. lol. normally we stand very straight. lol.

yp is tallllll

pss.. look at lx =x

i dun rem we purposely leave the shorter ones in front =x it's.. natural reaction =x

xy tried to squeeze in.

i have no comments abt the mad woman. lol.

legs.. xy's other leg at the top left hand corner spoilt the pic la! hur hur.. figure out which is mine?

the shape.. is..er.. not very even. haha. haha. quite easy to spot me la. who the hell wears watch on the right hand man?

me and tt rabbit. =x

arm rest.

haha. i like hq's description for this photo. yi shen hai bi yi shan gao. lol.

started slacking at coffee bean.

the..hur hur.. serious talk group..

and those talking crapppp. HAHA! gossips.. woo hoo.

tt's yp's bangle on her ears. tt monkey.

hey i can do tt ok? LOL. xy's nose so sharp oso cant do it. dun xiao kan flat and round nose.. =x

er.. i duno wad's this and i duno wad i'm doing again. =x

self pic eh.. pro not? lol. 9 ppl loh. lol.

help me do this. thanks.

http://kevan.org/johari?name=Lee+Shyuan

been long since i last blog. i dun have the time.. coz i've been working.. even if i have the time.. i cant use the com.. relatives from china came to my house to stay a few days b4 my erjie's wedding until.. 25th. yuck. i cant communicate with them. the girl is so shy.. i havent really spoken to her until now. i think i only smiled, said bye, and asked her, 'ni yao shi bing qi ling ma?' tt's abt all. oh ya..they're sleeping in my bro's room, and the com is in my bro's room..so ya. i cant use the com at night after i knock off. zz!

ok anyway.. been working.. but i quit last sunday. yup.. and 2 days b4 my erjie's wedding..i went out wif alex... first time go out wif him coz always he not free, i not free, or i lazy to go out =x yup. he's one of the few guys i've seen who can follow a girl shopping. lol. didnt complained anything. i duno if he's enjoying la. he's another 1 who tempt me to buy things la. omg. bought a shoe on tt day. lol. yup.. funny guy. he had to set alarm to remind himself to change pillow case. LOL!

den on the 11th i went to do manicure with my erjie.. the person cut my cuticles until bleed can? damn bloody pain. yup did french manicure for my nails.. and normal mani for my toes.. 2 big toes put 2 small stickers.. den french mani.. it's light pink base and dark pink glitters on the tip. haha. i think it's v nice la. lol. if only my nails were longer.. den went back home..soon my dajie came back from bangkok..she bought so many stuffs la.. she spend like $1000+ in bangkok.. it's madness. bangkok only can buy so many things. and the things she buy oso not v cheap. like $20+ a skirt that kind of stuff.. singapore price. she bought a lot of nice clothes for herself la.. i'm gonna kop =x

den on the 12th.. my erjie's big day.. church wedding day.. we woke up at 5+ to get ready. madness. my erjie early in the morning still can crap with me. make stupid faces den say she dreamt tt her fav boy student was the husband of her make up artist. LOL. damn stupid la. lol. den we got ready.. dress up.. make up. den started taking photos liao.


tt's my dajie and my bro.

my dajie and i =)

my bro's pretty gf.. =)

the bride.. my erjie =D

in wad way do they look like twins?

the jie mei-s and the bride.. one jie mei is missing. lol.

haha.. shortie =x the one with light blue tie is my cousin... a yr older than me. the other's my bro.

my little cousin.. they look really alike when my erjie wear specs..

the siblings.. =) i straighten my hair with the straighter.. damn shiok. haha. so straight =x

my erjie's friends.. the guy is.. my erjie's 1st bf.. HAHA =x they're really good friends. he's the idiot who.. erm.. read below abt the monkey thing. lol.

my mum and dad. my mum cried leh! HAHA. emo emo.

the veil's down.


haha. den slowly.. more relatives came.. den we got ready the stuff to tekan the groom and his brothers. lol.

we actually wanted them to go down to the 1st floor and sing a song to us so tt we can hear from our apartment. but they did oso dun wanna go down leh. wtf. buay steady. so we let them sing outside our gate. den we made the groom do pole dance with a bamboo stick. so they combined both of them.. sing and dance. lol. damn funny la. he sucked at dancing pls. lol. damn ugly and stupid. LOL. den we let them guess which is a lipstick mark of my sis.. but non was hers la.. it's all the aunties'. lol. den the punishment is to eat or drink sth. the most extreme is pure lemon juice and bread filled wif chili sauce. the brother go throw big part of the juice and bread away la. but at the groom supporting.. he's quite willing to do anything just to get the wife. the brothers are a bunch of irritating ppl, who all of us, as in me, my dajie and the sisters dun like. got 1 of them damn fucked up, damn bossy.. they super not supporting. there's this time they opened the windows and they can easy get the keys coz we normally put it there. den i just grab damn hard and snatch it away. den my dad scolded me for playing too crazy and dun waste everyone's time. let them come it. WTF? the worst thing in a day wedding is brothers who r not supporting and parents who r kill-joys. it's damn wtf la. ok anyway, we alr noe the angbao is $138.. but we kay siao say $288, so we let them bargain until $138 den we accept. look more real ma. but the groom didnt bargin leh! wtf. at first they play wif us la.. they gave us $8.88 i think.. a angbao filled wif coins la. lol. den we keep saying $288, den the groom gave us tt. madness. so we just take loh. haha. let u bargain u dun wan ma =x


we made the groom where tt. HAHA!!


ok den we let them come in, but we locked my erjie in my mum's room.. den we asked the groom to say 5 reasons why we should let him in.. den he said things like, i love u, i want u, i need u.. den he say wo xu yao ni.. den at the end of the day, my erjie say she didnt expect him to say tt. HAHA!! cool. he sounds to desp to get her. fun. lol.


got the bride.. he's kneeing down. haha.

this photo is the 2nd time they kissed. coz the real 1st kiss they kiss too fast everyone cant take a picture of tt. den everyone was like 'eh wa lao..so fast..kiss again! longer hoh' and they really stayed there for us to take photo. lol.

newly wed couple =)

the jie meis and xiong dis.. hate the xiong dis.. ARGH!! =x oh ya.. just to add on. one of them hoh.. they're supposed to clench their fists and say whoosh to take a photo.. he went to point middle finger. wtf. no cultured. rude. ppl wedding photo leh. can u take proper photos? wtf.

my family.

all the jie meis wore tt on our wrists. sweet =)

haha. cute. jaguar leh the car. lol. cool.

taken in the car.

ok den all the traditional stuff.. tea ceremony.. den go groom's place for tea ceremony.. den went to upper pierce.. i duno how to spell tt pierce word la. lol. there super many monkeys can? wtf. den i sat in my erjie's friend car.. he's a guy la.. den i sat beside him.. he keep driving near the monkeys den wind down my window.. trying to let the monkey jump in the scare me. the first time he wind down i screamed la. wtf. lol. idiot. but my sis's friends are all quite nice and funny ppl. though they're like 10 yrs older than me, we can still talk lots of crap. took photos.. den go church. den church got choir and some solo singing. one of the guy there hoh.. he sang a few solos.. he's the guy from sa.. he sang phantom of the opera tt guy leh. lol. i got a shock. lol.


the flower girl with my sis's friends. she's super cute la!

haha. 2 beautiful girls. the flower girl is so short.. when she march in b4 the bride right.. u cannot c her leh.. u can only c her head and the flowers on her head moving..coz the benches in the church is almost as tall as her. LOL! so cute. lol.

my dajie is super erxin. lol. my erjie doesnt even noe she did tt.

my little erjie.. she always sees me as a little girl..but how can tt be when she is so much smaller than me. lol.

the flowers..

the groom's real brother. he's.. SO YANDAO =x why r we in laws? HAHA. ok. dun sound so despo idiot. =x should have taken a photo wif him! =x

the groom's mum and all the jie meis. i duno what to call my erjie's bf. i cant call him tt anymore. so i use groom. groom sounds so weird. my erjie's laogong? omg even worse.

after tt.. go my erjie's place for a while.. put stuff den go back to my place.


taken in their bedroom.

all the presents. the kiddy card is drawn by my erjie's student. so cute la. lol. the just married.. i bought it for them. haha.

played a lot of children games but it's damn fun la. lol. with all the sisters.. one of my uncle and 2 cousins. lol. damn funny la. our minds and hands cant coordinate well. lol. den at night.. my dajie, mum and i sat down and complained about everything. some fucked up brothers the groom has.. and some fucked up aunties. really make me and my dajie damn damn dulan loh. they think they damn great? excuse me. i'm the immediate family of the wife hoh. who r u to sit in the front row of the church? ok nvm.


this is my ah yi's family. they made cute la. they went to pluck the flowers and put it at their pockets.

jie mei qing shen. LOL.

the 4 of us wore the same dress! haha. the dress right.. quan yi feng wore it on tv b4 leh.. on the condo & the city. cool. she wore black, coz we took the last 4 pieces in sinagpore =x the other 2 jie mei.. 1 is last min..1 just came back from nz so cant buy the dress wif us.

hahaha.. i find this photo damn funny. i duno who took this. taken from the upstairs of my house..den my erjie looking up. HAHAHA. damn funny la =x

next day... my dajie and i busy preparing to check in to the hotel. den we go in.. we're seriously v dumb. we wanted the iron to iron our dress for the dinner. den we called to asked for it. den we were looking around the room den.. we found the iron in the closet. =x den another friend of my sis came, she's staying wif us with another friend. so 4 of us. we wanted to check the breakfast menu. den we couldnt find the menu..we called again to ask where's the menu.. and told the person we couldnt find it in the room. it's in the drawer =x ok the worst thing is here.. my dajie and i got there first. den we could on the lights.. but the tv and air con were on. den we called to ask the person to check if there's sth wrong wif the lights and stuff la. and ask how do we switch them on. the person ask us to, slot the key card into the thing near the door...... HAHAHAHAH!!! damn dumb right? like very sua gu nv stay in hotel b4. but normally is all the electricity off if the card is not there ma. but the air con and tv is on leh. lol. so ya. sebei sia sway =x

den got ready to make up and all. got make up artist to help me mum and dajie make up and do their hair. i did the make up myself.. hair she make for me. so sad =( ok den dinner.. i was busy telling ppl which table they're sitting. yup. and other auntie said i look like a campus superstar girl. lol. 2nd person leh. wth i look like man? lol. ya den wedding dinner.. normal loh. lol. i'm just being v sua gu again. i duno the vip dinner is got ppl serve 1 leh. HAHA. cool. den there's this animation.. cool. my erjie wanted sth special.. not some baby photos v boring. animation is sth new. it shows their love story, how they met and stuff. lol.


the receptionists.

my mum and dad. my mum's so pretty tt day. lol. i keep telling her tt. lol.

mummy and me. lol.

ppl told my mum tt my bro's gf looked like a japanese or korean.

look at tt siao da jie again.

the singles.. HAHA. =x i mean.. not married.

the girls living under 1 roof. lol.

us =) my bro is..BIG.lol.

cousins =) 2 others didnt wanna join us for a photo.. if not it'll all my dad's side de cousins liao leh. wasted.

the cannot-swim-at-all and the pro in swimming. HAHA. my cousin.

the relatives staying at my place. this is the SUPER ULTRA shy and quiet girl. i cant stand her.

after the dinner.. the groom is seriously drunk. he kept hugging ppl in his hotel room. all of us gotta stay with him until he's really aslp. he even kissed me and my dajie on our cheeks la. he oso find it very gross after i told him the next day. lol. den he keep saying 'mei you ni, mei you wo' coz he wanna like thank us la.. like if not for u, this wedding will not b so successful and stuff. he keep hugging. the whole night he keep hugging us. zz. lol. damn funny la. we laughed the whole night.

went back hotel.. the groom's bro stayed in the same hotel as us. cant disturb the couple ma. lol. den we said ghost stories. zz. hate it. hotel leh!!! hotel so many kinds of ghost story 1 loh. couldnt slp tt night. not comfortable. next day.. sick liao. haha. den we spent the day busy doing all the post wedding stuff. count the angbao money.. c who gave how much.. return all the wedding stuff. very busy very tired.

we made them take this picture. HAHA!

the view from their room. our room is facing a construction site loh. yuck.

lunch-cum-dinner at pasta mania.

the brothers. 1 so yandao so style. 1.. the previous night went totally mad, no xing xiang. total opposite =x

next few days.. i forgot what happened. lol.

i quit last sunday. monday went out wif wl.. whole day at bugis. lol. wanted to buy a skirt very much but wl stop me. so sad leh ='( it's a black and white floral skirt. but it's $39.90.. if not for the price i'll buy it straight away! i bought nth tt day.. only spend $3.50 on food. unbelievable. lol. very long nv go out and only spend $3.50 liao. haha.

ytd went for a medical check up wif kenny and wl at raffles hospital. den to sakae for lunch. den we met peixian and edwin.. so we went to walk ard bugis street with them 2 of them. den we split to have dinner at different places.. and yup.. i was out for 12 hours ytd. madess. so tired.

i wan a wallet, a shades, the black and white skirt, and a mp3 player!! argh!